RULES OF PLAY

Important: Please read this in its entirety before our first meeting!

ETIQUETTE

Mutual respect and courtesy are essential and go a long way.

PRIVACY

I take your privacy very seriously and do not share any personal information. In return, I also request mutual respect and discretion.

HEALTH/WELLNESS

Shower on-site and use of antiseptic mouthwash that is also provided on-site is a non-negotiable.

BOOK IN ADVANCE

As this isn't my main income source, please be aware my schedule may keep me away from my phone/email for significant portions of the day. I prioritize clients who book a week or more in advance, thank you!

CANCELLATION POLICY

Mutually respecting our time is key. I do require a reasonable 25% deposit before every visit- it just brings me peace of mind that we are confirmed.

I do understand life comes up, for local SF Bay Area meetups cancellation within 48 hours generously creates a credit to be used within the next two weeks. A cancellation within two hours of us meeting will not be returned at all as respect for my time.

While I’m traveling to LA, NYC or outside of SF - it’s extremely important for you to honor your word for our date. I have a strict two week cancellation policy to create a credit for next time and cancellations within 48H will not be returned.

🏆 PLEASE BE DEPOSIT READY🏆

I request a reasonable 25% deposit in order to secure our appointment time. Please note that the appointment is not set until the deposit is secure. Cash App/Venmo/Zelle/Amazon gift cards are accepted. I’ll send along my handle after you submit your form and screening is complete.

Privacy concerns? No worries! Visit your local grocery, drug or convenience store and you can purchase an Amazon Gift Card in cash. Just send along photo of the 14-digit code scratched off on the back of card inside the packaging and you are all set! A 5-10 minute errand can go a long way to demonstrate respect for my time…

⚡️⚡️ELECTRONIC DEPOSITS ⚡️⚡️

For the highest level of mutual discretion and safety:

a) Please use ✨or other nondescript emoji to describe the transaction.

b) Don't forget to double-check the family/friends mode is toggled - please do not enable goods/services mode, thanks!

c) Double check setting is on private not public, thanks!

✈️ OUTSIDE OF SF/LA/NYC? ✈️

I’d love to come visit you for 4H, 6H, 12H or 40H+ engagements!

Please note: as I fly to you I’m more than happy to cover the cost of the flights/accommodations, but as a gesture of gentlemanly goodwill, I request that you offer to cover any Uber transportation. Thanks!

LET’S TRAVEL!! 🌎 🌍 🌏

I have the 100 page passport booklet and I intend on filling it up! I can’t wait for our next adventure!

🌈🌈🌈I ABSOLUTELY WELCOME EVERYONE🌈🌈🌈

I am open to all colors, cultures, ages, body-types, disabilities including mental and physical, skill level and unique desires.

I only ask that you treat me with respect and I will celebrate all that is you!

Please do not hesitate about sharing your specific, distinguishing traits with me during screening for this is ONLY used to verify you with references and support my safety.

💌 LIKE A SCOUT, BE PREPARED! 💌

Please have your commitment ready when our meeting begins.  Please prepare in an unsealed envelope.  Before excusing yourself to the bathroom before our date, please leave your envelope on a table or counter in plain sight.  If I am visiting you, please have it out on your bathroom counter before I arrive.

REAL AND FRESH IS SEXY.

There is nothing sexier than your real scent. I prefer you do not wear cologne. I do consider special requests if you have a preferred scent for me to wear or be sans any products at all… 

Pet Peeve #1 Alert: Please avail yourself of the mouthwash provided for you. A pet-peeve of mine is coffee-breath. 🙈🙊

Pet Peeve #2 Alert: If you’re clean shaven, please make sure you shave your face within TWO HOURS of our appointment! Being scratched up by your negligence isn’t on my to-do list... Please be a gentleman and bring your razor to work/gym, otherwise I’ll ask you to use mine after you arrive. Otherwise love the facial hair, rawr!

IMPORTANT: As much as I appreciate your effort to shower beforehand say at the gym, the most gentlemanly thing to do that sets my mind at ease is to always shower onsite at the beginning of our date. Pretty straight forward, huh? It takes just two minutes and sets us up powerfully for our time together, thank you in advance!

OUTFIT REQUESTS

Happy to accommodate outfit requests from any of my photos that are from my personal collection. If I am traveling, please let me know as much in advance so I can pack your request in time.

If you are seeking something special outside my collection, please know I am happy to procure and the gentleman thing to do is to offer the exact shopping website link and retail value that we will discuss in our communication beforehand with your deposit. Thank you!

ROLE-PLAY/ KINK

I welcome specific requests for role-play or other forms of kink. I understand you are very excited and so am I! And consider my expertise and additional energy this requires and kindly offer additional support especially if this involves time for research or securing specific props/supplies/clothing.

DRINK.

I don't drink alcohol and of course, you are welcome within moderation. My preferred beverages are quite hard to find except at fancy organic stores- should you be up for it! I enjoy RECESS prebiotic sparkling waters in Blackberry Chai and Peach. Nutritional bone broth if you are so inclined!

SUBSTANCE USE POLICY.

After some less than positive experiences… ABSOLUTELY NO DRUGS OR MIND-ALTERING SUBSTANCES TOLERATED BEFORE OR DURING SESSION.

This includes THC and other plant substances.

Let me be clear, if you’re looking for someone to “party” with- I’m not it, move on.

I’m seeking connected, transformative and ecstatic experiences - they require trust, safety and communication. I’ve found these are best met with clarity of mind and heart.

No drugs please for my personal safety, thank you!

REVIEWS AND FEEDBACK 

If you had a great time, please feel free to review me on Private Delights.  If there was something you did not enjoy or want different for next time, I request private feedback so that I may adjust myself to better next time to serve you.

COUPLES/GROUPS

I’m honored to be trusted to lead newbie couples as well as choreographing/directing scenes with groups of 3+ in having a smooth, ecstatic experience while safely honoring all boundaries. I get feedback where couples and groups often leave feeling even more bonded as well as learning new skills, rhythms and a breakthroughs in their intimate life! No experience necessary and totally OK if you feel nervous/shy/awkward! I make things easy by warming up the room, keeping everyone included as well as keeping the ball rolling organically ;)

As we definitely don’t want to be rushed, couples are a minimum of 90min and 3+ is minimum 2H. As with anyone else, deposits are required in advance.

GIFTS

Although I do not expect gifts, I love when presented with something hand-selected for me! Here are a few ideas to spark your imagination: 

Amazon Wish List: Another great place to select something from my curated desires.

Dark Chocolate: My new favorite brand is Northern California’s Dick Taylor that you’ll have more luck finding at Whole Foods. SF’s Dandelion Chocolate is still my all-time go-to for small-batch, single-origin dark chocolate that you can procure at any high-end, boutique grocery (not Whole Foods). FINE & RAW from NYC also is amazing. At the moment, I have chocolate coming out of my ears so unless it’s the highest caliber and ideally just two ingredient chocolate, consider selecting something else below xx

Edibles: I love blueberries/raspberries/blackberries! Especially ones you picked up at the local farmer’s market! I eat meat and love a good Charcuterie selection… as well as high-quality olive oils, other fats and caffeine-free loose teas and coffees.

Flowers: I prefer unique arrangements from local, sustainable resources such as SF’s Farmgirl Flowers or NYC’s Park Delicatessen. My favorite colors are lavender, orange/pinks.

Massages: Favorite spot in San Francisco that I honestly don’t treat myself enough to is Banya SF which is a fantastic five story Russian bathhouse experience! My dream is to travel the world exploring landmark and off-the-beaten-path bathing locals. Think Iceland volcanoes and ancient Italian towns; nudes in blissful, holistic commune… ;)

I also would love this sheepskin rug- they say you can experience deeper sense of self on these… interested in finding out? xoxo

❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Also it would be such an amazing treat for a gift card to enjoy a gorgeous meal at NOPA or Boulevard, or other incredible eats.

Sponsorship: I frequently take classes, workshops, and retreats to empower my mindset, presence and awareness.  Instead of a tangible gift, consider sponsoring my erotic and spiritual growth.

By honoring the Rules of Play, you will ensure a safe space We can live out our wildest desires and experience magic.